OnlyDM is built so your conversations, your fan data and your accounts stay yours — with an honest line on what's allowed where, not empty promises.
Your DB is access-restricted and your fan conversations are never sold, shared or used to train anyone else's model. Agency plans can self-host on your own infrastructure, so nothing sits on a third party's cloud.
One click in your account erases your account, persona and conversations (right to erasure), plus log-out-everywhere. We don't share your fan data with third parties.
OnlyFans requires human oversight, so we default to Human-in-the-Loop there. Fanvue, Fansly and ManyVids are more permissive, so Full-Auto runs where it's appropriate. We tell you the line instead of pretending there isn't one.
Sign-in is passwordless magic-link — there's no password on your account for anyone to phish or breach.
HTTPS everywhere, httponly session cookies, CSRF + origin checks, rate-limiting, signature-verified payments, and SQL handled with parameterised queries — reviewed adversarially and fixed before launch.
No. Your conversations are used only to generate your replies and your analytics — never to train a shared model or sold to anyone.
Yes — Account → Delete my account & data wipes your account, persona, conversations and stored data permanently (GDPR right to erasure).
On OnlyDM's secured infrastructure by default, or fully self-hosted on your own servers on the Agency plan.
Not if you use the right mode: Human-in-the-Loop on OnlyFans (compliant), Full-Auto on the AI-friendly platforms. Across our private beta we handled 1.2M DMs with zero account restrictions.